You ever wonder why some people have success online and most do not? Well to be perfectly honest, there are a myriad of reasons why people become successful online and some do not. One main reason I like to focus on sometimes when I am talking with other associates, friends, or family is the principle of your social circles or social influences.
For the longest time I have strived to work from home or to be my own boss in offline and online ventures. I have come across many awesome ventures with many people experiencing tremendous success online and offline being their own boss or working from home. I would ponder often about what they might do differently to achieve such great results. I often was impressed with their friends and the types of activities they would include in their lifestyles. Their attitudes were so different and it seems as if their perception had been swayed up a different path than the mainstream of others striving to do the same.
Often, I would speak to some individuals that had very little to no results that wanted to work from home or be their own boss. I wanted to hear what they had to say and what was going on in their life that might hinder them from gearing up and taking it to the next level. I noticed that many of our conversations where always directed at some individual that had the success some people would give their right arm for. All the issues that I would mostly come across were always geared toward what someone else was doing or how something was not fair. This was the typical reasoning used to justify their situations. I can understand that this is not a perfect world, but I also understand most problems or issues one might face are not because it is someone else's fault.
It became very obvious that the problem for many people was their lack of responsibility in things that involved them and a strong self denial when it came to holding themselves accountable for the results they produced. While the world kept moving forward and others new and old became more and more successful, they were still throwing away their time insulting or complaining about what someone else was doing or how they were doing it. Meanwhile, they never initiated any effort toward themselves or their particular venture. Be very careful not to fall into a "talk show" mentality. A talk show mentality is a mentality geared toward looking at what everyone else is doing, criticizing what everyone else is doing, or exploiting someone or something else so that you do not have to ever put the focus on yourself. Listen I am not downing talk shows because I understand it is a business. I am simply concerned about the great number of individuals that apply the "talk show" mentality into their life.
If you are getting caught up in a "talk show" mentality or just have not been taking responsibility for what you control, or maybe it is a lack of effort to hold yourself accountable, I admonish you to stop immediately what you are doing. You are implementing a formula for failure in your life. Simply put, you are sabotaging anything you put you hands on with that mentality. Catch me next time everyone, I am signing off this particular article and will continue one day soon! Contact me with your thoughts,questions, and concerns anytime!
I concluded the people fail and systems can work! It is up to us to figure out what we can do to make our lifestyle and situations better. Attitude is very important! What are you attracting with your attitude?
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